I am a Xhosa guy. Bhuti Lindile or Talidz.I am open and honest. I have come to realise that most women are embarassed, ashamed and overthink this thing of using male escorts. By reaching out to a male escort its not a negative reflection on you that you have failed as woman to meet a guy on the street. It shows that you a woman that knows what she wants, you are Bossy lady and you are not afraid to go and get what you want. Using a male escort also gives you power and control to choose and demand, your expectation of satifaction must be 110% otherwise what would be the point . You must be able to say these are my bucket list "1,2,3 and I am expecting 110% satifaction in all of them" Not that you are demanding but you know your worth - you are not here to nurse egos or accept average like you do with your boyfriend or husband. There must be a difference from what you have been experiencing otherwise what would be the point. You must have the same expectation you require when you out at a resturant. The second thing is women are not used to this thing of paying a man to have sex with them, but there is always the first, and this man is the only man that has your best interest at heart, the only man whose main purpose is to cater to all your needs, when has that ever happenend in real life. The third thing is some women are afraid of how they look, their bodies or their ages, so maybe I am not going to like them based on how they look- I dont really pay much attention to how you look or your age as long as you can get wet even if you cant get wet - I have the lube, but you must be over 18!! If you are that shy, we can do it in the dark or will wear a mask. The other benefits of using a male escort are you can be naughty, sluty, live your fantasies, without the fear of being questioned or judged. The benefits of using a male escort outweighs the negatives ke sana. I have seen it all, and I think I have done it all, nothing you tell me will surprise or shock me. I want the experience to be nice for you...you must have fun more than me... Also some women just want someone who will listen to their problems withouth judgement - You have come to the right place - we can talk about your life the whole day I will never get bored . I must admit Ndithanda izinto zabantu. My advice to you, you must get over this thing yokuba "Bazothini abantu" Its your life so live it!!

What I offer is real:
A man who listens without judgment.
A space where you can finally drop the act—no expectations, no masks. You can take off your wing, remove the make up, and be your trueself.

Maybe you’re married but emotionally starved.
Maybe you’re single but tired of shallow connections.
Maybe you’re successful but secretly exhausted of being strong all the time.
You don’t need another boy trying to impress you. You need a man who sees the woman beneath the armor.

What we do together—whether it’s deep conversation, laughter over dinner, soft touch, or shared silence—is entirely led by your comfort, curiosity, and desires.

No pressure.
No clock watching.
Just presence. Just you.

This isn’t about fantasy. It’s about relief. It’s about feeling like a woman again—wanted, respected, adored… with no strings pulling you in ten directions.

If that’s what you’re looking for, then I’m here. Quietly, patiently, without fanfare.

Let’s not make this typical.
Let’s make it real.