I have come to realize that women are going through a lot most especially married women, beautiful women with big cars that pull up in my driveway looking prim and proper, looking like they have it all and made it in life. Then when someone opens up after sex when they realize that I am a very chilled guy and safe , safe for them to open up. They would tell me they had my numbers for months but they were embarrassed to reach out and also worried about their safety going to a strangers house but they finally had the courage . What they do not know is I don't mind to have a meet and greet in public, also do not mind when someone says no this not for me after meeting. Then the pouring out session starts "I have all the material things, big house, beautiful kids, I get everything I want, I go to every holiday destination I want, I am supposed to be happy but I am not, I am very lonely- I cannot tell my friends or family cause they will judge me. I have no one I can tell how I really feel - the person I sleep next to everyday does not seem to care about how I feel. I have my hidden vibrator but I cannot talk to it. I have a void in my heart that I am yearning to be filled and that is why I am here with you(Some would say I dont know why I am here but I am here) - with tears running down ". I have taken a role of a therapist - the stories I get to hear they pull my hearts strings. I have become a really good listener and a should to cry on. I have realized most of the women I meet its more than just sex, but they are looking for someone they can talk to and someone who will listen to them and understand. Every time I meet someone new I always try sit down and talk to them and ask tell me what is bothering you, what is going on in your life, talk to me girl and I dont judge!! Some of the women get surprised now cause they thought when they get to my place, its straight to the bedroom(I understand on their way to my place they would be nervous and scared so they cant be ready to jump into bed straight away - I build up to it. Try and make it feel as natural as possible - Make them feel comfortable and relaxed). When we are sitting on the couch I would be sitting far apart at first then move in closer slowly, then boom I am holding and brushing her hands - hugging and brushing her shoulders - kissing the forehead and giving her a back rub. I am keeping and maintaining an eye contact all the time so that I can see if she is comfortable or not. Some of my regulars call me and say I just want to come there and talk. I allow them to be themselves. I have created a safe and non judgement environment. I am very much in touch with my feelings and feelings of others.. Every time now I see woman on the street and gym most especially married one I just want to go out to them and give them a hug but then again I know it would seem weird and creepy but I mean well..
- Languages
- English (Fluent)
- Orientation
- Heterosexual
- Height
- 178 cm / 5′10″
- Ethnicity
- Black
- Age
- 36
- Shaved
- Yes
- Smokes?
- No
- Hair color
- Black
- Nationality
- South African
- Gender
- Male
- City
- Johannesburg
South Africa
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